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Forbidden Love; Classroom Love




Intelligence is one of the qualities people look for in a partner.
Classrooms are just bursting with knowledge and hence people tend to view the people they meet in this setup as being intelligent.
This is then how relationships in the classrooms are born.

Teacher- Student :

Teachers seem to always know everything!! This is a turn on for most of the students especially if the teacher in question has other attractive features.

The downside ;

Most school policies do not tolerate it.
You always have to hide when you want to be together.
The age difference in some cases might be too big.
There is no freedom to introduce the partner to friends and family.
Concentration span and performance of either or both of the partners may be affected.

The open window ;

This relationship is all sorts of trouble but there is a way it can work out;
The age difference should be considerable and realistic (it should be such that you'd still date this person if you met under different circumstances) and the partners in question should be in different schools.

Students :

There are those geniuses in the class or those cool kids or those silent ones who we always want to know about.

The downside ;

You're always looking on each others shoulder to see what your partner is and is not doing..you end up having limited freedom to do the things you want to do.
There is the risk of you getting bored of each other because of always being together doing the same things.
You all tend to think the same way since you are around the same age and are doing the same things.

The open window ;

One partner could change classes or schools just to break the uniformity.

Teachers :

People in the same line of work  tend to get attracted to the one who seems to be better at the job. You  begin to feel like you need to know this person better.

The downside ;

Monotony might eventually make you people get bored of each other.
You are both treated the same at work, there is uniformity; it's hard to be in a relationship with someone who you are exactly the same with.

The open window ;

If the teachers go to different schools, they will be able to break the monotony and the uniformity hence reducing the chances of getting bored of each other.

Teacher-Principal :

It is is easy to want to get close to a superior and get to know them better.
The principal however is still the boss of the teacher so the boss-employee ideology applies here.

So.. yes...classroom love can work!



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